Monster Mom- Steve Wilkos

I am HORRIFIED at today’s show on Steve Wilkos, this poor child! This Gentleman has gone through extremes to save a child, that is not his.
I wish I could save all of the children that needs it, show them what love and safety is! Unfortunately, the government will not let me…apparently, mothers like this can treat children horribly but will not place them in a home like mine because of my “Alternative Lifestyle,” what a shame! (I tried to apply to be a safe house or in-between shelter until they are placed)

Never Underestimate A Redhead..

Never underestimate a Redhead-Scorpio on a mission, you cannot play with fire and NOT expect to be burned… I was not born on Halloween for anything; since I have multiple elements working against me here, that is why I am known to be a Beautiful Disaster!

HA MUAH ❤

To All Of The Good Fathers Out There That Has Been Jilted By Their Baby’s Mother….

First off, I would like to say how sorry I am, I never realized exactly what men have to go through; it is very unfortunate!

I am so sorry that females can be “Catty” (and we know that is an under-statement)!

I literally feel as if  someone just punched right through my chest cavity; while gripping my heart like vice grips, tearing it out slowly so you can feel every tendon that is being severed….

The one thing on this earth that you love, cherish, and would ultimately sacrifice anything for…

Their happiness, health, safety; and for what, them being taken to a place where not only,  you cannot see them, but not be there to touch them, to hear their voice or to see their eyes light up when you walk in the room… You don’t know if they are safe or if someone is in the process of hurting them…

You feel helpless, powerless, beaten down all while she has the child to clutch to and others….

You are left alone… and the one thing that will make everything better.. has been taken from you by an angered woman, that can be very hurtful!

BUT you as a man (or me as the other mother), have to be strong and the one to keep going but in all actuality you do not even have the strength to get up and go to the bathroom or to get a drink of water….

You are there.. all alone… with nothing and no one….

And then maybe down the road… you will finally get a court date JUST so you can get your every other weekend and two weeks out of the year….

At least, you fathers, get that opportunity… I do not even get that…

I was there to cut his umbilical cord (I even got yelled at by the nurse twenty minutes after he was born , because I fed him too much at once… but he was hungry) I bathed him of all of that  gunk on him; I love and cherished him…

And then shortly after his fourth birthday, she told me that she was leaving and taking him to another state… her home state.

Now, after all this and then… nothing…..  There is nothing left… I am left with nothing….

I am so sorry, because this pain… NO ONE should have to bear it!

(And while many people may ask why not have another child? For one, you CANNOT replace a child and for two, I cannot have children; so I am left with nothing…

~The Broken Heart of a Mother….

Do You Know The Answer??

The most difficult behavior to learn and/or master is?????

Alex-Hunny (From Breaking Point On Investigation Discovery… Yeah, You Sweetie)

I am so glad that she was able to get help… I’ve been there (just not the heroin thing) however, I don’t think they should have broadcast it out there like that… that was kind of crappy! I could have helped her more effectively and less stressful because that ish was stressful to watch and I felt real bad for her… you cannot blame the girl… they came at her being all aggressive and rude… there is another way people; they call themselves professional, more like rude and manipulative… lets not forget aggressive! No wonder she wanted to get high afterward and took her 3 weeks to get over… she would have come with me that day (I wouldn’t have taken her to THAT place either… or broadcast her dirty laundry like that.. that was rude no matter how you look at it!) Talk about traumatizing!

Hit me up chic… if u want some different (but effective help… you just need a little more information and you are basically helping yourself… without all of…that crap)

Best wishes mama!

http://www.investigationdiscovery.com/tv-shows/breaking-point/breaking-point-videos/alex.htm

If The Truth Hurts….

You know, I am all one for being blunt and telling people “if the truth hurts and all” and we all know I am BUT… going around telling RANDOM people that you DO NOT know that they are STUPID for making bad decisions….. NO ONE TAUGHT ME AND I MADE A CRAP LOAD OF BAD DECISIONS! You have to make “bad” decisions to figure ish out (in my opinion) Ignorance CAN be fixed…. stupidity CAN’T be! AND EVERYONE makes the wrong/BAD decision sometime in their life, haven’t YOU… SO in all actuallity… WHO IS THE STUPID ONE NOW?! (shouldn’t be rude and MAYBE others wouldn’t be rude back… what a bad decision you just made…. CHEW ON THAT ONE, BATMAN!)

Don’t dish it if you can’t take it… just sayin’! 😛

~I hope everyone has an wonderful weekend and stay safe, apparently there’s a lot of “stupid” people out there making “bad decisions”…… 😛

Who Would Have Thought Fluoride Was Bad?!

Who Would Have Thunk?! LOL

I hate to tell y’all BUT Prozac will make a sane person crazy (and vice versa…. supposedly..) and it has Fluoride in it… who would thunk fluoride is BAD for you SINCE the Doctors pass it out like candy…. (they really do, have u ever been to the dentist? they charge u and arm and a leg to clean your teeth {in-which u can do yourself, if your not lazy} and then send you home with free stuff….. usually a toothbrush, tooth paste, floss (I mean they should… u just gave them an arm and a leg {hopefully it was yours!}. SO… IF this is true, then toothpaste that has fluoride IN IT, is NOT a good thing.. {I haven’t done research; I’m just assuming it’s true… but then assuming can get u killed these days so… but I think I’m ok… I’m assuming about toothpaste… but then again apparently toothpaste has fluoride in it and they say it’s in Nerve Gas and we ALL know… that’s not a good thing!}
So, why are Dentist and his Staff handing out stuff that harms you?! Well, if you wanna know why it is because they are manipulating you into doing something that is BAD for you and COULD hurt you… I mean, serious hurt (Nerve Gas is NOT the one you want) ALL the while, they are taking an arm and a leg (all of your money because they are NOT cheap) AND telling you to come back in 6 months to do it again….
No wonder why so many people are dying “naturally”
~The kicker of the story IS: The majority of people are doing it….
*Trends are NOT always good people; so quit being afraid of a little hard work (or just quit being lazy) and do it yourself (there’s a saying “If you want something done right, do it yourself..) then you can figure out how to do it right (knowledge IS POWER, people) and then execute AND the best part IS…. you don’t have to pay someone else to manipulating you (and ultimately hurting you… INTENTIONALLY) and take your money!
Moral of the story: You can take that money (that you would have spent on the cleaning) and spend it on WHATEVER YOU WANT! So tell me, what would you do with an extra $100 dollars?! (I’m just trying to being to make a point… we ALL know that it way more than $100 to get your teeth cleaned).
I’m NOT going to lie here… I would take that $100 and do something I want!
Buying some Beer and good food from the grocery store and having ALL the people that love me to come over and have a (safe) and chill night doing whatever we WANT to do in a nice warm house…laughing (and my family likes to mess around and play…) BUT it is fun and that is what I like to do; no matter what, in order to be happy in life you have to do what you want to do, when you want to, and where…. that is the ultimate “secret-of-life” people…. to be HAPPY!
So, if someone tells you that you are a selfish, controlling, Bit… what does it matter, you can be you’re NOT (intentionally or not) hurting anyone OR breaking any laws…. SO ULTIMATELY, NO ONE CAN DO ANYTHING TO YOU (right?! and if no one can do anything to you- what do you have a problem with? (actually, the answer to that is YOU DON’T HAVE ANY PROBLEMS!) SOUNDS NICE, DOESN’T IT?!?! (there’s a perk to this already wonderful concept and it is: if NO ONE can hurt you then that means you have POWER and CONTROL- sounds nice,?!)
In the end, I have you given you the steps to take to become a HAPPIER person as well as a HAPPIER life AND the “secret to life” (did you already know it?? well… good for you, NO ONE told me…. I JUST FIGURED THIS ISH OUT SO EXCUSE ME.. so quit being so rude and tell others… I did!)
I am HAPPY, I have NO conflict in my life, I have let go of the past (and float away… it was horrible so that was nice to do) I have everyone (well almost, I just have to be patient {and we all know that I haven’t mastered that trait..yet) I love and loves me, in my life…
So, I just told you how to “manipulate” your world to work for you for free-to be happy…. and the BEST thing is…. now that you know the steps, what are you going to do about it; how are you going to make your dreams come true?! (now that you don’t have to worry and be stressed?! I can’t do it for you but you are NOT afraid of a little hard work and not afraid of LEARNING (you don’t need ANYONE to teach you, there are resources at your fingertips, you just have to find it… like treasure hunting… YOU could have a happy life that NO ONE can take from you AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO HAVE ANY MONEY TO START… The only thing I have to master now is self-composure and patience… because there is NOT enough time in the day to do everything I love…. which can frustrating! lol
Oh and once you are happy the “acknowledgement” and “feeling” of the word LOVE is taken to a whole other level (a higher level) and when you get to that level… you find that you are capable of so much better and GREAT things and as long as you are not STUPID or EVIL- NO ONE CAN TAKE IT FROM YOU!
All right, I’m out… love y’all and go make great things happen in this world… you WILL be rewarded… just don’t hurt anyone in the process or this will NOT work… it’s not that hard people!

~The rants and raves of a Beautiful Disaster… can you see why I had to start a blog… my loved ones don’t like to “debate” with me for some reason, so I need to get this off my chest but I get nothing from them… I guess they realized they can’t reason with crazy! (because you can’t people, you will never win… crazy people will keep going and nothing you say can “reason” with them… HAHAHA lol 🙂 )

I hope everyone has a safe weekend, it’s cold up here in MI so stay warm….. and stay out of MI lol 😛

Ignorance….

Ignorance noun:

lack of knowledge or information

You could NEVER-possibly learn all there is to know; therefore, we are all ignorant to some extent!

Thankfully for us – Ignorance can be fixed…however, Stupidity CANNOT be!

Crime Of Nature?! It’s Friggin Nasty AND A Crime, people!!! {SMDH}

If it wasn’t bad enough that “killing” your child has become a tend (and come on, admit it… a lot of Bit.’s been killing their kids!); this has to become a trend too?!?! ya know, there are solutions to every issue (even if u don’t like what it is… there’s a solution!) there should be a “position” of “Trend” stoppers for the BAD/NEGATIVE trends….. just sayin…. throwing that one out there…

http://crimefeed.com/2015/01/crime-nature-woman-dating-dad-shares-disturbing-details/?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=InvestigationDiscoveryCime Of Nature?

Can You Help Me Understand?

I do not understand why people tell me they “can’t” or they “don’t-know” and then get upset with me with my answer (given my answer is a question but that is irrelevant because that is I know what to say… I’ll explain why, bear with me… I’m not the brightest and I fumble with words so explaining things can be like pulling teeth… with no anesthesia…literally!)

I am the type of person that does what I want to do, when I want to do it, and where; so basically, I only state facts (it takes too much time AND energy {for me} to do anything less) so I ultimately assume others do as well (I shouldn’t just “assume” that but I can’t help it… it’s what comes naturally-like breathing). Therefore, I tend to be a little slow (when it comes to innuendos and that is most of people’s humor so too my surprise/humor as well as others- humor… I’m the “laugh of the party”) I am also the type of person to speak without thinking (which in the past has created more conflict than pleasantries, so I’m sure you can only imagine..)

So, even though I openly admit to being a little slow and not the brightest…. why do people get mad at ME when THEY are t he one’s coming to ME?!?!?!

Riddle me that, Batman….. lol

The Value Of A Dollar?!….

As I sit here and contemplate the value of a dollar, I finally realize that it is NOT the monetary value of the dollar that matters… it is what you do with it that counts!

HUH… Who would’ve thunk?! lol

🙂