To All Of The Good Fathers Out There That Has Been Jilted By Their Baby’s Mother….

First off, I would like to say how sorry I am, I never realized exactly what men have to go through; it is very unfortunate!

I am so sorry that females can be “Catty” (and we know that is an under-statement)!

I literally feel as if  someone just punched right through my chest cavity; while gripping my heart like vice grips, tearing it out slowly so you can feel every tendon that is being severed….

The one thing on this earth that you love, cherish, and would ultimately sacrifice anything for…

Their happiness, health, safety; and for what, them being taken to a place where not only,  you cannot see them, but not be there to touch them, to hear their voice or to see their eyes light up when you walk in the room… You don’t know if they are safe or if someone is in the process of hurting them…

You feel helpless, powerless, beaten down all while she has the child to clutch to and others….

You are left alone… and the one thing that will make everything better.. has been taken from you by an angered woman, that can be very hurtful!

BUT you as a man (or me as the other mother), have to be strong and the one to keep going but in all actuality you do not even have the strength to get up and go to the bathroom or to get a drink of water….

You are there.. all alone… with nothing and no one….

And then maybe down the road… you will finally get a court date JUST so you can get your every other weekend and two weeks out of the year….

At least, you fathers, get that opportunity… I do not even get that…

I was there to cut his umbilical cord (I even got yelled at by the nurse twenty minutes after he was born , because I fed him too much at once… but he was hungry) I bathed him of all of that  gunk on him; I love and cherished him…

And then shortly after his fourth birthday, she told me that she was leaving and taking him to another state… her home state.

Now, after all this and then… nothing…..  There is nothing left… I am left with nothing….

I am so sorry, because this pain… NO ONE should have to bear it!

(And while many people may ask why not have another child? For one, you CANNOT replace a child and for two, I cannot have children; so I am left with nothing…

~The Broken Heart of a Mother….

I’m Desperate To Find A Solution…

Last week I came across a story, in my county, over a 2 year old boy had passed away; at that time, there wasn’t too much information until after the investigation was conducted… well, it turned out to be one hell of a discovery!
Unfortunately, I have some more details on this story (the only reason why I say it’s unfortunate is because of what has been discovered during their investigation) and it is quite horrible actually; it enraged me and made my partner cry. When I mean horrible, that is exactly what it is!
This precious little guy had a twin that passed away a few months ago “apparently of natural-causes” of respiratory problems. They are going to exhume him or reopen the case on the twin and investigate further. For the little boy that passed away a few days ago, the investigation turned up with some shocking discoveries; that he died from “fatal-internal injuries”
Allegedly, the mother is being charged with sexual penetration with a “foreign object” which all of his injuries are fresh.
Within the last year, the father of the boys died from a shootout with Police Officer’s from Genesee Township.

There has to be something that can be done, it seems like this is becoming a trend around where I live; it’s like they do not care about the consequences…

~THESE CHILDREN ARE OUR FUTURE~
Every child deserves a chance at life, they deserve to know what love is (from the parents and family)!
I have a 2 year old and he is so sweet and has a good heart; he’s so defenseless and innocent, it is our duty to teach and protect them!
What do some people not understand about this?!

http://www.mlive.com/news/flint/index.ssf/2013/11/dead_toddlers_mother_charged_w.html

Another one…. R.I.P.- may you find comfort now!

Flint police investigating suspicious death of 2-year-old child

I currently live in Genesee County but as a teen (an angry one at that but for good reason!) I lived in Flint and it was my stomping grounds. Flint used to thrive back in the day but now it is considered the most dangerous city that has a population of 499,000 and below. I am actually surprised (and so is everyone else lol) that I made it out alive…most of my friends did not and if they did, it was because they were already sitting in jail…

With ALL of the violence against one another, can’t we just make it a known thing that we do not have to kill children?! I mean goodness, please tell me what this two year old (and ALL the rest of the children that died for no reason) died?! Either you beat him, let someone else beat them, or you were caught up on yourself and was not watching the child….regardless, IT IS YOUR FAULT!

Maybe one day, our criminal justice system, will make people think twice about hurting a poor, defenseless child! Unfortunately here in Michigan, there have been soooo many deaths of babies/children that could have been prevented!

I just don’t understand and I don’t ever think there will become a point-in-time that I will understand!

 

 

http://www.mlive.com/news/flint/index.ssf/2013/11/flint_police_investigating_sus_5.html#incart_river_default