To All Of The Good Fathers Out There That Has Been Jilted By Their Baby’s Mother….

First off, I would like to say how sorry I am, I never realized exactly what men have to go through; it is very unfortunate!

I am so sorry that females can be “Catty” (and we know that is an under-statement)!

I literally feel as if  someone just punched right through my chest cavity; while gripping my heart like vice grips, tearing it out slowly so you can feel every tendon that is being severed….

The one thing on this earth that you love, cherish, and would ultimately sacrifice anything for…

Their happiness, health, safety; and for what, them being taken to a place where not only,  you cannot see them, but not be there to touch them, to hear their voice or to see their eyes light up when you walk in the room… You don’t know if they are safe or if someone is in the process of hurting them…

You feel helpless, powerless, beaten down all while she has the child to clutch to and others….

You are left alone… and the one thing that will make everything better.. has been taken from you by an angered woman, that can be very hurtful!

BUT you as a man (or me as the other mother), have to be strong and the one to keep going but in all actuality you do not even have the strength to get up and go to the bathroom or to get a drink of water….

You are there.. all alone… with nothing and no one….

And then maybe down the road… you will finally get a court date JUST so you can get your every other weekend and two weeks out of the year….

At least, you fathers, get that opportunity… I do not even get that…

I was there to cut his umbilical cord (I even got yelled at by the nurse twenty minutes after he was born , because I fed him too much at once… but he was hungry) I bathed him of all of that  gunk on him; I love and cherished him…

And then shortly after his fourth birthday, she told me that she was leaving and taking him to another state… her home state.

Now, after all this and then… nothing…..  There is nothing left… I am left with nothing….

I am so sorry, because this pain… NO ONE should have to bear it!

(And while many people may ask why not have another child? For one, you CANNOT replace a child and for two, I cannot have children; so I am left with nothing…

~The Broken Heart of a Mother….

NO PARENT SHOULD JUST BE CONTENT WITH A SENTENCE LIKE THIS OVER SEXUAL ASSAULT

 As I sit here and do homework and take my little breaks, I surf the net like most people; when I come across something that is so disturbing that makes me wonder why I am more distraught and upset over this male only received probation and a tether (oh but for only 6 months for sexually assaulting his 15 year old family member) than what her parents are.

 

“Prosecutors charged Rapin with sexually assaulting a 15-year-old girl from Aug. 25, 2012, to Sept. 30, 2012, in Saginaw Township.

Saginaw County Chief Assistant Prosecutor Christopher Boyd said his office offered the plea deal after the girl’s testimony in Family Court was “contradictory to her prior statements” to the police. After that testimony, the girl’s family was “content” with the plea offer, Boyd said.”

 

Do not get me wrong, I know everyone handles situations in different ways (And I’m quite confident in saying that I probably would NOT have handled this situation in the proper and/or correct way..) but I could NEVER be content with a judgment such as this one! I also don’t understand why the judge would give so much leniency to a person of this nature…I’m pretty sure it will happen again and the next time the victim may not be as lucky as this little girl (and yes….15 is still a child!).

I am currently in school for my B.S. in Criminal Justice with a concentration in Forensics and with everything that is taught to us is that rapists usually do not stop on their own accord and usually the rage within the individual will escalate and can lead into murder in order to cover up what they did and have no witnesses.

 

Only probation huh?!

And people wonder what’s wrong with this world…..

 

 

Another one…. R.I.P.- may you find comfort now!

Flint police investigating suspicious death of 2-year-old child

I currently live in Genesee County but as a teen (an angry one at that but for good reason!) I lived in Flint and it was my stomping grounds. Flint used to thrive back in the day but now it is considered the most dangerous city that has a population of 499,000 and below. I am actually surprised (and so is everyone else lol) that I made it out alive…most of my friends did not and if they did, it was because they were already sitting in jail…

With ALL of the violence against one another, can’t we just make it a known thing that we do not have to kill children?! I mean goodness, please tell me what this two year old (and ALL the rest of the children that died for no reason) died?! Either you beat him, let someone else beat them, or you were caught up on yourself and was not watching the child….regardless, IT IS YOUR FAULT!

Maybe one day, our criminal justice system, will make people think twice about hurting a poor, defenseless child! Unfortunately here in Michigan, there have been soooo many deaths of babies/children that could have been prevented!

I just don’t understand and I don’t ever think there will become a point-in-time that I will understand!

 

 

http://www.mlive.com/news/flint/index.ssf/2013/11/flint_police_investigating_sus_5.html#incart_river_default