To All Of The Good Fathers Out There That Has Been Jilted By Their Baby’s Mother….

First off, I would like to say how sorry I am, I never realized exactly what men have to go through; it is very unfortunate!

I am so sorry that females can be “Catty” (and we know that is an under-statement)!

I literally feel as if  someone just punched right through my chest cavity; while gripping my heart like vice grips, tearing it out slowly so you can feel every tendon that is being severed….

The one thing on this earth that you love, cherish, and would ultimately sacrifice anything for…

Their happiness, health, safety; and for what, them being taken to a place where not only,  you cannot see them, but not be there to touch them, to hear their voice or to see their eyes light up when you walk in the room… You don’t know if they are safe or if someone is in the process of hurting them…

You feel helpless, powerless, beaten down all while she has the child to clutch to and others….

You are left alone… and the one thing that will make everything better.. has been taken from you by an angered woman, that can be very hurtful!

BUT you as a man (or me as the other mother), have to be strong and the one to keep going but in all actuality you do not even have the strength to get up and go to the bathroom or to get a drink of water….

You are there.. all alone… with nothing and no one….

And then maybe down the road… you will finally get a court date JUST so you can get your every other weekend and two weeks out of the year….

At least, you fathers, get that opportunity… I do not even get that…

I was there to cut his umbilical cord (I even got yelled at by the nurse twenty minutes after he was born , because I fed him too much at once… but he was hungry) I bathed him of all of that  gunk on him; I love and cherished him…

And then shortly after his fourth birthday, she told me that she was leaving and taking him to another state… her home state.

Now, after all this and then… nothing…..  There is nothing left… I am left with nothing….

I am so sorry, because this pain… NO ONE should have to bear it!

(And while many people may ask why not have another child? For one, you CANNOT replace a child and for two, I cannot have children; so I am left with nothing…

~The Broken Heart of a Mother….

Lisa Cox of Ohio; All The Other Crappy Parents

The audacity you have to not expect criminal charges to be filed against you and your husband; personally I believe you should receive something more than abandoning a child…. My mother did that to me, you willingly brought a child from infancy into your home; since he was a baby, how do you explain his behavior problems?!… HELLOOO they are from you.
Some people cannot have children (like myself) but I was so very thankful that I have a partner that is able too and we have a beautiful 2 year old boy. I hate to tell you, but most children have behavior issues, it is OUR jobs as parents to TEACH them how to think (NOT WHAT to think, but HOW) how to control their temper as well as other situations. We should teach our children wrong from right (they do not come into this world knowing and it takes so very much repetition to make allow it to stick!).
You kind of remind me of the South Dakota mother (Stephanie Metz) saying “We need to make our kids tougher,” yeah…like we don’t already have enough school shootings and hate crimes done from student to student.

Lets talk about the mother (Isabella Dutton) which stated ALL over the world that her kids are the biggest regret of her life…. SERIOUSLY?!?! Your children never asked to be born, you should have thought about that before you didn’t take precautions to NOT get pregnant (to show how responsible you are!.
Can you ONLY imagine how this is going to affect them?! Oh yeah, that’s right… they ruined YOUR life.. so let me guess, you’re going to ruin their lives, right?! If you said no “you’re NOT” going to ruin their lives or damage them, you’re in for a real wake up call because your little announcement has made ALL around the world!

Let’s not forget about the parents that kill their kids… Being a parent is a privilege, children are so sweet and innocent and ALL they want (and need) is attention… FROM YOU! Quit being so damn selfish, you decided to have kids so they are your responsibility.. if you don’t want the responsibility of raising your kids, let someone else do it! ALL children DESERVE the RIGHT to live and be happy; just because you are NOT… it’s not their fault!

I can’t wait until my money comes in (and NO you don’t need to be rich to take on foster kids but I do need a house where they can feel safe and get the routine and love of a family). I have been looking into becoming a foster parent (most likely to the older kids that no one wants… it’s sad to say that but it’s true… Well not really, someone does want them…. I DO!) and when the day comes and I can fill my house with children (they should be able to get opportunity to flourish and to know what love is…oh and if they for one second think that just because they turn 18 and “Phase Out” oh hell naw, they are not going to be allowed to (I’m so just j/k well not really but I am) they can move out and hopefully take all that I can teach them in order to grow into a good person…but nothing will change…we are STILL going to be family! If there is one thing that I have learned over the years… FAMILY DOES NOT HAVE TO BE BLOOD (most of my siblings are no relation to me technically (by blood) but they are my family and there is NOT one thing I wouldn’t do for them!)

So… instead of damaging (or even killing) your child, let someone have them that wants them (and there are people that would LOVE to have them… Let them have a chance for a happy and successful life!

It kills me knowing that there are children suffering over parents stupidity and selfishness!

Maybe if more people take on the military’s philosophy, the world would be in a better place!

“Lead by Example”

Be your child’s mentor… put yourself aside and focus on the child!